An Amazing Lady

One of the greatest lessons we can teach our children is to live a satisfying life. A few years ago I spoke by phone with a dear friend of mine about one week after she turned ninety-seven years of age. Her name is Gladys. She is in relatively good health and is able to live by herself. She drove her automobile until she was ninety-two. Truly, one of her greatest talents is her cooking. A personal favorite of mine is her chicken and dumplings.

When I think about Gladys, I always think about the deep love and affection she has for her family. Some of the happiest times of her life are when she is surrounded by her family. A memory that comes to mind just here took place about seventeen years ago. I had just moved to where Gladys lives the month before, and therefore I had not met all of her family. I could not believe how many people gathered at her house that afternoon. I remember being impressed with how it was very apparent of the deep love for one another that characterized this family.

As I spoke with Gladys recently, I asked what was her secret to living such a long life. She replied that she did not know the answer to that question. But then she proceeded to mention some things that have been important to the way she has lived her life. To me, these things she told me about can be considered as keys to a satisfying life. Please carefully ponder the following things that Gladys mentioned.

Hold Your Temper

The failing in the life of some people is that they allow their temper to control them. When you become greatly aggravated, the easy thing to do is to “blow your top.” But this never accomplishes anything. In fact, it is harmful to yourself and is a hurtful influence to those around you. But if you will develop patience, you will be able to hold your temper, as Gladys has been able to accomplish.

Stay Busy And Work Hard

At the foundation of Gladys’ life has been hard work. She has never been one to just sit around and let others do all the work. Also, this was a trait that she and her husband instilled in their seven children. Indeed, one of the most important building blocks in developing character in children is to instill in them the virtue of hard work.

Refuse To Complain

As Gladys told me, “I have nothing to complain about.” Her attitude is not an accident. Apparently many years ago she made up her mind that she would not complain. Unfortunately, some people allow complaining to become a part of their daily routine. And the sad result is that complaining serves to drag down the quality of our lives. Indeed, our lives will be happier and more satisfying if we will decide to approach life optimistically, think the best of people, and be content.